Fertility drugs have the ability to turn us into crazy monsters at times. We have mood swings, we cry, we yell, (maybe we throw something now and again) and we feel completely out of control. We may even act in a way that is totally out of character for us. It’s confusing and can actually be scary– especially when your temper tantrum is over and you’re like “Oh sh!t… oops…” If you need a good example of this, check out this blog post by love, dani… it might be like looking in a mirror for some of you– and for others it may be some insight for what is yet to come… this will be you at least once… if it hasn’t happened already… dun dun dunnnnn….
If you are feeling like sex is a chore, you have GOT to up your game. Remember when you had sex just for the sake of having sex? What happened to that? INFERTILITY HAPPENED. THAT’S WHAT. You need to get out of the rut. Sure you can still be like “Honey.. my OPK is smiling at me, time to take my clothes off…” but after that add “gimme 5 minutes to get the goodies!” What are the goodies? You mean you don’t have goodies? Sounds like you need to grab your chicas and have a Romance Party.
How many times have us cysters been told “make sure you have sex cycle days blah though blah”? Um, a lot. Is that sexy? Um, no. It seems silly. It’s kind of ridiculous when your husband asks you things like “What cycle day are you on?” or “Hey, hon, is it baby-making days?” You know you have PCOS when you send your husband texts like “Babe, don’t leave for work before I get home” because your on CD 14 and on your 4th round of Femara.